Just Because you CAN Doesn't Mean You SHOULD

This is a phrase that has been replaying and floating around my head for months. I have a very specific memory of my mom helping me with a school assignment sometime in middle school. I was trying to pinpoint my three biggest strengths and weaknesses. I'm not sure why this memory stands out so strongly to me but it is one of the memories that feels almost tangible. I can remember the frustration I was feeling at the impossible question and the way that I was leaning/jumping on our old green granite counter tops while mom sat in one of the wooden swinging chairs. This is the first time I remember ever being asked this question and the answers my mom helped me to come up with are the ones I always fall back on when I am filling out surveys or having a job interview. "Determined. You are very determined and always finish everything that you set out to do. Enthusiastic. When you find something you care about you show enthusiasm in your work and are eager to share your goals and sk...